LET STUDENTS SPEAK MORE
The Speech I Never Gave—Until Now
Introducing Ashish M,,,—my batchmate from MBA college. The Casanova.
If I was an ‘x’ level nark, he beat me by at least ‘10x.’ He thought he was the
King of Bombay. Well, I believed I was no less than a Bengali Queen.
By some strange twist of fate, we ended up in the same book
presentation group for our Branding class. Our topic? Positioning by Al
Ries and Jack Trout.
The Book Presentation was a high-stakes event—you didn’t just
present; you made an impression. I got to work from day one: reading articles
on branding, scouring the web for insights, making notes, rehearsing
tirelessly.
Meanwhile, the so-called King of Bombay had just one piece of
advice for me:
"Take a chill pill, Jaya."
I couldn’t.
It wasn’t the topic that scared me—it was the fear of freezing on stage.
D-Day arrived. I had already puked three times and wished a
car would hit me before I reached college. Unfortunately, Delhi was driving way
too safely that day.
Then came our turn. The King of Bombay and the Bengali Queen
took the stage.
I was convinced I would freeze. Even more certain that he—who
hadn’t even picked up the book—would go blank too.
The mic was thrust into my hands. I barely managed:
"Positioning means occupying the mind of the consumer."
And then—BLACKOUT.
To my utter shock, M—who supposedly hadn’t read a single
line—snatched the mic and carried on. Not only had he done his homework, but he
delivered his speech with jaw-dropping confidence.
I, on the other hand, just wished the earth would swallow me
whole.
When it was over, I was devastated. The King of Bombay walked
up to me, smirking.
"Work hard, but don’t take yourself so seriously," he said.
Then, as if bestowing royal wisdom:
"Hide your fangs, girl! I like to pretend I’m the dumbest person in the
room. It takes everyone off guard."
Long before Gen Z popularized “Let them,” M…….. was already
living by it.
Clearly, the mindset has worked—he’s now the Business Head of a national-level
magazine.
As for me? That moment shaped me in ways I didn’t realize at
the time.
I know what it feels like to have words trapped inside you, to have something
to say but no voice to say it with. My schooling hadn’t trained me to trust my
voice let alone articulate it.
That’s why, as a teacher, I make it a point to get my students
talking. Public speaking isn’t just about confidence—it’s about self-belief. I
don’t want a single child sitting in my class feeling like I did that day,
paralyzed by fear.
They will speak.
They will stumble.
They will learn that their words matter.
By the way ,Ashish , remember that promise I made? That
someday, I would beat you in public speaking?
Well, I’m ready. Precisely 25 years later.
Salute, King of Bombay ! I make every voice in my class matter
because of you.
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